i have too many dumbdevices, though.

a lot of people will likely be angry with me for this post, and i don’t care.

i’m not to blame for them choosing to not keep things simple.

i’m not to blame for them “evolving” the English language and for losing their collective identity in favor of their individual images.

LGBT+
the “+” includes “QIA” etc.
the “+”, in my book, should also include me.

reasonably, “binary” should mean that a person who was born male [XY chromasomes], say, identifies as the same gender [in this case, boy] as their biology.

reasonably, “non-binary” should mean that a person who was born female [XX chromasome], say, identifies as the opposite gender [in this case, boy] as their biology.

as hermaphrodites go:  if memory serves, hermaphrodites are born with either XXY or XXXY [never XYY] chromasomes, and there are so few hermaphrodites that they’re often excluded from the Rainbow Tribe, too.

as far as “pronouns”:  when i was a kid, it was not ok to call someone a “He/She”. …  nowadays, it’s appropriate to call someone a “He/She”.  what’s up with that?”

as for myself:  i was born male [XY chromasomes (He)], i identify as the same gender as my biology [He\Him or He\He], and i am heterosexual.

the problem is that, i get smacked for just using the “He\Him” pronouns on myself. …

the Rainbow Tribe is every bit as prejudiced as the vast majority of “non-Rainbow”s. …  same as i’ve always, in my 37 years, heard far more racism from the mouths of dark people {i won’t call ’em black ’cause that’s not the true color of their skin, and i won’t call ’em brown ’cause … well, people are crazy.} than from the mouths of white people, and yet it’s white people who get the finger and spotlight all of the time, especially when something like Rodney King’s murder and George Floyd’s murder.

who cares about dark people murdering white people?  who cares about dark people complaining about racism and yet excluding [forceably, self-entitledly] all other skin colors from the Lives Matter movement?

queer = weird = outlying [by dictionary definition] … and i haven’t the bandwidth for “I” and “A” + anything else that isn’t where i fall.

back in the day, again, “queer” was an umbrella term for the whole Rainbow.  now, it’s a term that refers to a particular color of the Rainbow.

i was talking with someone, the other night, who discribes theirself as “She\They”–which, as you can see above, i mean as they were born as biologically female, and they don’t identify with either gender in particular.  they classify theirself as lesbian, though, and happen to enjoy masculinity as they understand it to be and to look like. …  in my book–and i’m likely wrong just don’t have the bandwidth to be corrected by anyone but this particular person directly–this person [under LGBTQIA+whatever] would fall under the Queer color of the Rainbow.  smack me all you want to; again, i’m not to blame for you choosing to not keep things simple.

until just now, and for 25 years, i was calling the movie To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything! Julie Newmar by the wrong title [Showgirls].

oh well. …

in the movie, though, is described a keep it simple way to remember who’s who in the LGBT world, as it was at the time:

Homosexual [Lesbian, Gay–and “gay” was an umbrella term that the males have adopted; ‘course, they had adopted “queer”, as well] and Bi-Sexual are easy.

–  Transvestite:  “When a straight man puts on a dress and gets his sexual kicks.”
–  Drag Queen:  “When a gay man has way too much fashion sense for one gender.”
–  Transsexual:  “When a man is a woman trapped in a man’s body and has the little operation.”
–  {i’m adding this, to keep up with the times.}
    —  Transgender (the “T” in LGBT):  “When a man is a woman trapped in a man’s body and has not had the little operation.”

i am directly quoting the movie, here, so just transpose “man” and “woman” as necessary, instead of making mountains out of mole hills.

i was banned from @KIKI’s twitch channel because i have a nephew who is She\Him and who prefers to dress like a girl.  since she identifies as being a boy, and dresses like a girl, he dresses in drag, so [in my book] a He\She who dresses as a woman, at all, is not a Drag Queen because she identifies as a woman and dresses like a woman.

in effort to gain some enlightenment, though, i asked the He\She about it, was told that i need an education–when it would’ve been very easy to just tell me how she felt about calling herself a Drag Queen, you know, why she calls herself that when she’s a girl and so cannot actually be a Drag Queen.

i told @KIKI, loooong before this came up, that i go case-by-case, anyway, and that seemed to have slipped her mind while she was screaming at me, and i couldn’t hear what she was saying because my internet is scuffed to begin with and it was constantly cutting out at the time when she was screaming at me, so i couldn’t adequately defend myself not knowing what i was defending myself against, so @KIKI banned me because she figures i’m a bigot and yet it is @KIKI and the He\She in question who exercised hate and self-entitlement to justify bullying me.

note, also, that [above] i said that my nibbling dresses in drag, and i did not say that he is a Drag Queen.  point’s the same, though:  a Drag Queen is a boy who dresses as a girl [oversimplified to make a point], and a girl who dresses as a girl isn’t dressing in drag at all, so that He\She who thinks of herself as a Drag Queen–and who got me banned from @KIKI’s Twitch community [which is just as well] is, simply put, a girl who wears dresses.

i am a heterosexual man, and i do happen to watch porn, and one of my favorite scenes is Love For Sale, Chapter 2- Crossdressing [SexArt.com].  i can’t say that, in the episode, Amarna Miller is portraying a character who is a transvestite or portraying a character who is Queer [as i’ve described, in paraphrase, above].  i can say only that i truthfully don’t care either way.  i’m likely the only person on Earth who sees neither skin color nor gender, though i would very much like to marry a girl who was born female [and have children with her] someday.

there’s too much in my head that i cannot pour out to have the bandwidth to be any more “politically correct” than i already am, and you can take me or leave me as-is.  NO ONE, yet, as “taken” me; i’m 37 years old, and i’ve only ever been discarded by all but a few during my childhood.

… and i’ll shut up, now, for now.

just testing this thing.